This is no joke. Sorry if you thought I was going to double you up with laughter. No, today I’m talking stereotyping! I thought it was a thing of the past, but it seems it’s as evident today as it has always been.

Take, for example, television. Have you ever noticed that in a pub scene on a TV show, the men seem to be constantly drinking pints or bottles of beer, while the women drink glasses of wine or a gin-and-vodka tonic?

How often have you seen a man in a pub scene drinking a glass of wine and a woman drinking a beer? Some may say it’s down to taste, but surely not all the men in Coronation Street only drink beer while the women always order a glass of wine?

I’ll give it to Emmerdale (another UK soap opera), as I have seen at least one female character (the vicar!) drinking a pint of beer. It’s refreshing to see, but I’ve yet to see any men walk in and ask for a gin and tonic! It’s always “pint please, Chas.”

Let’s turn our attention to the news. I know many people don’t watch the news on TV because it’s always depressing, but take ‘Breakfast’, the BBC’s early morning news programme.

Why does the man always sit on the left of the screen, while his co-presenter, a woman, always sits on the right? Is it some kind of power struggle? Why can’t they occasionally swap positions?

Charlie State and Naga Munchetty
Charlie State and Naga Munchetty, Presenters of the BBC’s Breakfast – He always sits on the left while she always sits on the right. Picture of my TV screen taken by me.

This leads me to wonder why it always has to be a man and a woman when two people read the news on TV. ‘Breakfast’ occasionally has two women presenting the show, but I’ve never seen it with two men. Why? Is it not acceptable for two men to present the news together?

It’s precisely the same over on ITV. The man sits on the left of the screen while the woman always sits on the right.

Have you noticed that the male presenter seems much older (not you, Charlie) than the woman presenter? Very rarely is it the other way around? Is there a reason for that?

Let’s move on to driving. Yesterday, while waiting to cross the road, I counted the cars that drove past, where a man and woman were sitting in the front of the vehicle. Would you be surprised if I told you that it was the man who was driving in just about all of the cars?

I saw it while on holiday as well. The man usually drives a hired vehicle while the woman sits in the front passenger seat.

It happens in our family all the time. We go to pick up my sister-in-law and her husband, and I can guarantee that my sister-in-law will sit in the back seat while her husband will sit in the front passenger seat.

The same goes for my niece and her husband. When they come to visit us, he always drives, regardless of whose car they are using.

Take two couples going off on a car journey together. Why do the men always sit together in the front while the two women sit in the back of the car?

London 2012 Olympic Games
Celebrating at the London 2012 Olympic Games

Sport also suffers from stereotyping. Today, I was delighted to hear that Tom Daley and Dan Goodfellow won an Olympic bronze medal in the synchronised 10m platform diving.

On TV, ‘Breakfast’ mentioned it all morning, and the interview with Daley and Goodfellow was aired far too many times. They even interviewed a friend of Daley and Goodfellow’s, who talked the audience through the last dive more times than I care to remember.

However, where were Clare Balding and Co when Ed Ling won an Olympic bronze medal in the men’s trap shooting for Great Britain? Was he not worthy of an interview, Ms Balding? And why, unlike Daley and Goodfellow, did he only get a few seconds of a mention on ‘Breakfast’? Ed, if you’re reading this, then, unlike the BBC, I’d be delighted to interview you and celebrate the fact that you won an Olympic bronze medal.

Finally, let’s turn back to drink. How many of you ladies enjoy drinking whisky? Does anybody out there consider whisky to be only a man’s drink? Why am I asking these questions? It’s something that recently came up in conversation.

It seems I’m as guilty as most others at stereotyping. Reading through this post, why did I put an exclamation mark after the word vicar? Do vicars not drink alcohol?

Do you have any examples of stereotyping in today’s world? Does it bother you, or is it something we just take for granted?

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147 responses to “Why Do Men Sit On The Left And Women Sit On The Right?”

  1. Robert Matthew Goldstein avatar

    There is the world of the blatant misogynist and the more subtle world of institutional bias; the kind of bias that seems almost invisible; I still catch myself holding doors for women or pausing before shaking hands with a woman. As a child, I was taught that holding a door open for a woman or not shaking her hand was good manners. These behaviors become automatic.

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      I agree, Rob, although I do offer my seat to an elderly person regardless of whether they are male or female. Like you say, it was something I was taught to do when growing up. However, I still don’t get why men always seem to sit to the left of a woman. I can’t see what would be wrong if he sat to the right of her. I’m guessing it’s just something from the subconscious that makes this happen?

      1. Robert Matthew Goldstein avatar

        My guess is that it has something to do with mud and horse drawn carriages. But it’s truly a mystery.

    2. Edith Aint avatar

      As a woman, I appreciate those “misogynistic” niceties. Gender equality is one thing, but in my not-so-humble opinion, the world is becoming blatantly misandrist. I see more sexism against my husband than I’ve ever personally experienced. His mother taught him to hold doors for women, yet even she expresses misandry toward her own son and brother. She’s on the phone right now talking bad about “all” men.

      1. Robert Matthew Goldstein avatar

        Some people do go overboard. I think we can agree that sexism against men does not excuse misogyny. It looks like we have to work on both.

  2. Hugh's Views and News avatar

    If I get a reply, I’ll let you know what they say, Judy. 😀

  3. noelleg44 avatar

    HOw about handedness? This is a right-handed world!

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      It is, but does it explain why on every news show I watch, the man is always sat to the left of the woman?

  4. Hugh's Views and News avatar

    Maybe you’re right and it is a regional thing, Val. I’ve still never found out the answer as to why men sit to the left of women. Somebody mentioned it had something to do with it making it easier for the man to draw his sword. Maybe many hundreds of years ago, but it’s strange that even in today’s world, you often see men sitting (or walking) to the left of a woman.

  5. Carol avatar

    Well, I don’t how..But I did..Miss this post so it is my first time of reading it…Thanx Hugh! I would be better off in complete ignorance now I am looking at everything… Haha..I don’t Drink beer but love brandy…Always pay the bills and order the wine though…Hubby doesn’t carry cash, doesn’t use an ATM…never ever wrote a cheque, doesn’t………. This could be a post……He does, however, drink beer, eat, read and cleans my windows… Look what you have started….haha. Happy New Year :)

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      It does get you thinking, doesn’t it Carol? Are we creatures of habit, or is it something we just do without thinking about? I think the only reason why this was my most viewed post in 2017 is that lots of people were searching for the answer on Google and were ending up on this post. Shame I couldn’t really give them any answers…just more questions. 😀

      1. Carol avatar

        I think a bit of both Hugh…But yes it certainly gave the grey matter an airing…Have a good weekend :)

  6. Hugh's Views and News avatar

    Could it be because alphabetically Greg’s name comes first? Then again, we’re known as John and Hugh, so maybe it’s to do with age? 🤔 I always like to walk on the outside of John so I can protect him if a cyclist mounts the pavement. Or maybe it’s because I can get away from him quickly when I tell him I’ve been spending in the Apple store again? 😂 Who knows, but the answers are probably endless.

  7. Float Ideas avatar

    Good point of view

  8. Andrew Petcher avatar

    I have read about this before. The left hand position is considered the dominant position because that is the way our brain works and we read left to right. Be interesting to watch the news in say, Saudi Arabia, but my guess is that it is two men?

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Trouble is, I’ve never had a view or comment from anybody in Saudi Arabia. I’m guessing that they have just the one man reading the news. Hopefully, somebody will prove me wrong.

  9. kirascribbled avatar

    I always thought my (women’s) positioning was due to convenience. I sleep to the left of my husband only because it is closer to the door and easier to tend to children in the night without waking him. Who drives comes down to who’s car we are taking. No one wants to fiddle with seat positions. Although, I would always prefer he drive because of the considerable nagging about speed and how fast corners are turned; too fast! Also if he is driving I’m free to again, tend to the children. I have been shifted away from the roadside on busy streets in his attempt to keep me safe though. The media is more mixed in the US, but not f/m equal, mind you. I have seen two men doing news shows. Also our sitcoms regularly have women ordering beers. Any woman would go broke ordering those froo froo drinks. 9$ for one drink when a beer is 3$; BEER PLEASE!

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      I’m so pleased to hear that there are places in the world who do have two men presenting the news together. I’ve never ever seen it (although I have often seen two women present the news), so it’s great to hear from you and for you to confirm that it is happening.
      Beer at $3? Wow! You got a bargain there. A beer in London, these days, is way over £5, but you’re right about it being less expensive than a glass of wine.
      Thanks so much for joining in this debate with your thoughts.

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