This is no joke. Sorry if you thought I was going to double you up with laughter. No, today I’m talking stereotyping! I thought it was a thing of the past, but it seems it’s as evident today as it has always been.

Take, for example, television. Have you ever noticed that in a pub scene on a TV show, the men seem to be constantly drinking pints or bottles of beer, while the women drink glasses of wine or a gin-and-vodka tonic?

How often have you seen a man in a pub scene drinking a glass of wine and a woman drinking a beer? Some may say it’s down to taste, but surely not all the men in Coronation Street only drink beer while the women always order a glass of wine?

I’ll give it to Emmerdale (another UK soap opera), as I have seen at least one female character (the vicar!) drinking a pint of beer. It’s refreshing to see, but I’ve yet to see any men walk in and ask for a gin and tonic! It’s always “pint please, Chas.”

Let’s turn our attention to the news. I know many people don’t watch the news on TV because it’s always depressing, but take ‘Breakfast’, the BBC’s early morning news programme.

Why does the man always sit on the left of the screen, while his co-presenter, a woman, always sits on the right? Is it some kind of power struggle? Why can’t they occasionally swap positions?

Charlie State and Naga Munchetty
Charlie State and Naga Munchetty, Presenters of the BBC’s Breakfast – He always sits on the left while she always sits on the right. Picture of my TV screen taken by me.

This leads me to wonder why it always has to be a man and a woman when two people read the news on TV. ‘Breakfast’ occasionally has two women presenting the show, but I’ve never seen it with two men. Why? Is it not acceptable for two men to present the news together?

It’s precisely the same over on ITV. The man sits on the left of the screen while the woman always sits on the right.

Have you noticed that the male presenter seems much older (not you, Charlie) than the woman presenter? Very rarely is it the other way around? Is there a reason for that?

Let’s move on to driving. Yesterday, while waiting to cross the road, I counted the cars that drove past, where a man and woman were sitting in the front of the vehicle. Would you be surprised if I told you that it was the man who was driving in just about all of the cars?

I saw it while on holiday as well. The man usually drives a hired vehicle while the woman sits in the front passenger seat.

It happens in our family all the time. We go to pick up my sister-in-law and her husband, and I can guarantee that my sister-in-law will sit in the back seat while her husband will sit in the front passenger seat.

The same goes for my niece and her husband. When they come to visit us, he always drives, regardless of whose car they are using.

Take two couples going off on a car journey together. Why do the men always sit together in the front while the two women sit in the back of the car?

London 2012 Olympic Games
Celebrating at the London 2012 Olympic Games

Sport also suffers from stereotyping. Today, I was delighted to hear that Tom Daley and Dan Goodfellow won an Olympic bronze medal in the synchronised 10m platform diving.

On TV, ‘Breakfast’ mentioned it all morning, and the interview with Daley and Goodfellow was aired far too many times. They even interviewed a friend of Daley and Goodfellow’s, who talked the audience through the last dive more times than I care to remember.

However, where were Clare Balding and Co when Ed Ling won an Olympic bronze medal in the men’s trap shooting for Great Britain? Was he not worthy of an interview, Ms Balding? And why, unlike Daley and Goodfellow, did he only get a few seconds of a mention on ‘Breakfast’? Ed, if you’re reading this, then, unlike the BBC, I’d be delighted to interview you and celebrate the fact that you won an Olympic bronze medal.

Finally, let’s turn back to drink. How many of you ladies enjoy drinking whisky? Does anybody out there consider whisky to be only a man’s drink? Why am I asking these questions? It’s something that recently came up in conversation.

It seems I’m as guilty as most others at stereotyping. Reading through this post, why did I put an exclamation mark after the word vicar? Do vicars not drink alcohol?

Do you have any examples of stereotyping in today’s world? Does it bother you, or is it something we just take for granted?

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147 responses to “Why Do Men Sit On The Left And Women Sit On The Right?”

  1. Terri Webster Schrandt avatar

    Perhaps it’s a symmetry thing? I watch Good Morning America and George is on (my) right and Robin on the left. When four sit together, both men and women change spots leaving George and Robin there. Hmmm. I do most of the driving, but then again, my hubby drives like grampa, LOL. And, yes, I’ve been known to toss back a shot of good whiskey. I like that Piehole, apple-pie flavored moonshine :) And after you made me recall where media stars sit, I’m heading to the liquor cabinet now. ;)

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Do you think so, Terri? I never thought about it from a symmetry point of view. So, it sounds as if on ‘Good Morning America’ they do it the other way around and the man sits on the right-hand of the screen? That knocks a few of the other theories, left in the comments, out of the water. Maybe it’s just a British thing? So, when there are two men and two women it’s a man – woman – man – woman line up? What about only two men presenting the news? Does that ever happen? This morning, on the BBC’s ‘Breakfast’ programme, it was two women presenting the show, but I’ve yet to see just two men ever present the show.
      Phew! Now I need a drink…and it’s only 9.30am!

      1. Terri Webster Schrandt avatar

        Well, you opened this little can o’ worms, Hugh, so drinks all around, LOL! You made us all think! I cannot recall when I have see two men present. And most women do not present the hard news…

        1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

          Ah, so there are some signs of invisible stereotyping in your part of the world then. I’ll have to get Miss Maple to investigate all of this. She did a very good job in one of my early short stories.
          Thanks for joining the debate, Terri.

          1. Terri Webster Schrandt avatar

            I’ve now noticed this more keenly, and now that I am watching Olympic coverage “full-time” this concept should play out on the screen!

  2. Mary Smith avatar

    I hadn’t noticed the newsreader positions before you brought it to my attention but I will now. Maybe we should ask the television people if there is a reason?
    Driving – if we’re out together he usually drives (while I snipe about dodgy lane-changing from the passenger seat) but the upside is I am the one who can drink – which follows nicely on to yes, I drink whisky. I’m Scottish, born on Islay, don’t think I had a choice.

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      I don’t think the BBC will give their reasons away, Mary. I was hoping they would have been in touch with me by now, but it seems the sofa position mystery is one that may never be solved.
      Good to hear about the whisky. I’ll pass that message on to my sister-in-law.

  3. Janice Wald avatar

    Hi Hugh,
    Why did I think you were taking a break from blogging? Is the break over?
    I never noticed that men sit on one side and women on the other. In orthodox religions, they are separated, but that is all I know. I will try to be more cognizant of this going forward!
    Janice

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Not quite yet, Janice. I’m waiting for my book to come back from my Editor, then I’ll be disappearing again. 😀
      I only wrote this post as I had to get it off my chest. I just hope we can solve the sofa position mystery because it’s driving me crazy. I don’t think the BBC will ever tell me why they do it, though.

  4. John W. Howell avatar

    I got up today and didn’t know what I was going to worry about next. Thank you for the subject of invisible stereotyping. (I don’t want a pint of beer, thank you. I would like a nice Viognier.) Now I know why that guy is looking at me funny. LOL

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      I hope it didn’t worry you too much, John. 😀 I’m with you on the Viognier. We just need to convince those guys in the bar scenes on the TV and in the movies.

      1. John W. Howell avatar

        We could start with a slug right out of the bottle. :-D

  5. floridaborne avatar

    My parents used to watch the Huntley-Brinkley report before it was considered politically incorrect to have 2 white guys telling you the news. Walter Cronkite was THE name in news, trusted by my parents more so than H-B. The only time you saw a woman giving any kind of news report was feel-good, mindless stuff, but as far as delivering the hard news? The other side of never. .

    Stereotypes don’t want to die and will do anything to remain alive. Take, for example, in the 1950’s where the jokes about ditzy women drivers were rampant. One journalist went to car insurance companies for statistics, finding that women were the better drivers and their insurance rates were much lower. How did the men of the time react to this? By saying that it was women’s bad driving caused them to have accidents. :-)

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Many years ago we had much the same issue with women presenting the weather on TV, but I’m very pleased to say that it is now most certainly a thing of the past. Just as is a woman presenting sport. However, there are still areas in sport where women are still excluded. In this day and age, that is a very sad thing.

      1. floridaborne avatar

        I think exclusion is a problem, but an even deeper problem is the abysmal lack of respect for a woman who chooses to take care of a house, be there for her children, and give her husband the support he needs to keep going to work everyday. It is still looked down upon.

        My mom was the CEO of our home. She sewed our clothes, did everything related to the house and lawn, and paid the bills. My father would never have survived without her, and he would’ve been the first one to tell you that. :-)

        After staying home with children for 3 1/2 years, it was clear that I wasn’t strong enough to be a housewife.

        1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

          I’ve not come across any women who have suffered from lack of respect for choosing to be a stay at home mum. However, I have come across quite a few men who find it beneath themselves to help with the household chores. That flabbergasps me, but even more are those who admitt to not knowning how to iron a shirt and expecting their partner to do it even though she may also have a fulltime job. I do admire those men who choose to become househusbands so that their wife can progress in their career. That seems to be newish concept that has now been around for the last ten or so years. Fifty years ago I think it would have almost been a crime for a man to want to be a househusband. I don’t think the word ‘househusband’ even existed back then. Thank goodess the humanrace is still progreesing in the right direction, although there’s still lots more work to be done.

          1. floridaborne avatar

            I’m happy to hear that you know of househusbands. I’ve never personally met one, but I’ve heard of them.

            I’ve lived in various parts of the USA and most women have full time jobs, yet when they go home they do all the housework and cooking while their husband sits in front of the TV to “wind down.” Then there are the hubbys who don’t care if the house is clean. It means that she ends up cleaning because someone has to do it. The feminist movement was for a woman to have the choice to work or stay home. We ended up being saddled with both.

            1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

              As I said, we’ve still got lots of work to do in this and many other areas, and I’ve even heard of the situation you described but when it’s been the other way around.

            2. floridaborne avatar

              Thanks for the dialogue. It helps to have other perspectives to ponder.

  6. Solveig avatar

    Well I can’t speak for tv as I don’t watch much of that. But I’ll keep my eyes open for French and German news broadcasts in the weeks to come.
    For driving, I don’t even have a license. I remember as a kid that the men would be in the front mostly due to their size, sometimes they would be relegated to the backseat if there was a women far older than them in the car, even if she was half their size. I always cede my right to the front seat to anyone who is older than I am, and the taller ones too…
    Oh and for the alcohol, my fiancé and I don’t drink at all…

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      A few people have mentioned ‘size’ when it comes to why a man usually sits in the front of a car when not driving, but it’s lovely to hear that many will usually give up the front seat when an older lady is also a passenger. Manners are so important in this day and age and I, for one, will always offer my seat on public transport to any woman if she has to stand. However, I’ve seen many men pretend she’s invisible.

  7. TanGental avatar

    Why did you begin to notice stereotyping when you moved to Wales?!! Why on Gogglebox do we only see pet dogs with the viewers and not cats? I think you are completely right though.

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Oh, it’s something that has been stirring in me for years, Geoff (but let’s not go there). 😀
      Never watched Gogglebox, so I can’t comment on that. Perhaps the cats are camera shy?

  8. Judy Martin avatar

    I agree with you wholeheartedly here Hugh! I watch BBC Breakfast and notice that mostly, the male sits on the left, I only watched it this morning for about an hour before work but I was sick of hearing about Tom Daley and Dan Goodfellow despite being thrilled that they won the bronze (I watched it last night so saw it live anyway)!
    When Mr Grump and i were in the Army, one of us was in catering, the other in artillery. I bet I can guess which way most people would think as to who did which job! :-)

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Yes, I think many would automatically think that you worked in catering and Mr Grump in Artillery, Judy. However, from the memory of reading your blog, I’m sure he’s the one that does a lot of the cooking in your household? When this subject came up in our house over the weekend, I mentioned that back in the 70s & 80s it was mainly only women you saw on the TV introducing a cookery programme. Now we have a good mixture. My observations of today’s world really struck a cord with me and I had to write it all down. I don’t think we’ll ever get to the bottom of the sofa position mystery.

  9. teachezwell avatar

    Here in the States, the only time I’ve seen women on the left of the screen on news broadcasts is when there are two women. Otherwise, the man sits on the left. The poor meteorologist is always to the right, male or female, or not even with the “news stars.” You’ve made some interesting observations!!

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Thank you. This thing seems to be worldwide! Is there something going on that we’re not aware of? I hope I’m safe and that what I have uncovered doesn’t mean I’m going to suddenly disappear…. 😀

      1. teachezwell avatar

        You never know, Hugh. Make sure you are right with God….. :-)

  10. Daisy in the Willows avatar
    Daisy in the Willows

    I have never even noticed – but I will pay closer attention now.

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Invisible stereotyping, Daisy. It had the same effect on me until I realised what was going on.

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