This is no joke. Sorry if you thought I was going to double you up with laughter. No, today I’m talking stereotyping! I thought it was a thing of the past, but it seems it’s as evident today as it has always been.

Take, for example, television. Have you ever noticed that in a pub scene on a TV show, the men seem to be constantly drinking pints or bottles of beer, while the women drink glasses of wine or a gin-and-vodka tonic?

How often have you seen a man in a pub scene drinking a glass of wine and a woman drinking a beer? Some may say it’s down to taste, but surely not all the men in Coronation Street only drink beer while the women always order a glass of wine?

I’ll give it to Emmerdale (another UK soap opera), as I have seen at least one female character (the vicar!) drinking a pint of beer. It’s refreshing to see, but I’ve yet to see any men walk in and ask for a gin and tonic! It’s always “pint please, Chas.”

Let’s turn our attention to the news. I know many people don’t watch the news on TV because it’s always depressing, but take ‘Breakfast’, the BBC’s early morning news programme.

Why does the man always sit on the left of the screen, while his co-presenter, a woman, always sits on the right? Is it some kind of power struggle? Why can’t they occasionally swap positions?

Charlie State and Naga Munchetty
Charlie State and Naga Munchetty, Presenters of the BBC’s Breakfast – He always sits on the left while she always sits on the right. Picture of my TV screen taken by me.

This leads me to wonder why it always has to be a man and a woman when two people read the news on TV. ‘Breakfast’ occasionally has two women presenting the show, but I’ve never seen it with two men. Why? Is it not acceptable for two men to present the news together?

It’s precisely the same over on ITV. The man sits on the left of the screen while the woman always sits on the right.

Have you noticed that the male presenter seems much older (not you, Charlie) than the woman presenter? Very rarely is it the other way around? Is there a reason for that?

Let’s move on to driving. Yesterday, while waiting to cross the road, I counted the cars that drove past, where a man and woman were sitting in the front of the vehicle. Would you be surprised if I told you that it was the man who was driving in just about all of the cars?

I saw it while on holiday as well. The man usually drives a hired vehicle while the woman sits in the front passenger seat.

It happens in our family all the time. We go to pick up my sister-in-law and her husband, and I can guarantee that my sister-in-law will sit in the back seat while her husband will sit in the front passenger seat.

The same goes for my niece and her husband. When they come to visit us, he always drives, regardless of whose car they are using.

Take two couples going off on a car journey together. Why do the men always sit together in the front while the two women sit in the back of the car?

London 2012 Olympic Games
Celebrating at the London 2012 Olympic Games

Sport also suffers from stereotyping. Today, I was delighted to hear that Tom Daley and Dan Goodfellow won an Olympic bronze medal in the synchronised 10m platform diving.

On TV, ‘Breakfast’ mentioned it all morning, and the interview with Daley and Goodfellow was aired far too many times. They even interviewed a friend of Daley and Goodfellow’s, who talked the audience through the last dive more times than I care to remember.

However, where were Clare Balding and Co when Ed Ling won an Olympic bronze medal in the men’s trap shooting for Great Britain? Was he not worthy of an interview, Ms Balding? And why, unlike Daley and Goodfellow, did he only get a few seconds of a mention on ‘Breakfast’? Ed, if you’re reading this, then, unlike the BBC, I’d be delighted to interview you and celebrate the fact that you won an Olympic bronze medal.

Finally, let’s turn back to drink. How many of you ladies enjoy drinking whisky? Does anybody out there consider whisky to be only a man’s drink? Why am I asking these questions? It’s something that recently came up in conversation.

It seems I’m as guilty as most others at stereotyping. Reading through this post, why did I put an exclamation mark after the word vicar? Do vicars not drink alcohol?

Do you have any examples of stereotyping in today’s world? Does it bother you, or is it something we just take for granted?

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147 responses to “Why Do Men Sit On The Left And Women Sit On The Right?”

  1. Norah avatar

    Interesting observations there, Hugh; and lots of great comments. It is the same situation with the news and talk shows here in Australia. Funny I’d never thought to notice it before. I must admit that, as a right-hander, I carry my bag over my left shoulder and prefer to hold my husband’s hand in my right. It’s more comfortable that way. Also, you’ll mostly find him in the driver’s seat and me (asleep) in the passenger’s. He loves to drive and I do it only as a necessity. I guess we maintain the stereotype now that you’ve pointed it out, but I hadn’t thought about it before. Oh, and he only drinks beer in a bar, rarely anything else. I never drink beer. I used to enjoy a glass of whiskey sweetened with lemonade, but not for a very long time!

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Thank you for joining the debate, Norah. I think you’ve proved me right in that a lot of stereotyping is invisible these days. We just never think about it, but it’s there right in front of us. I’ve loved the comments that this post has produced although we’ve yet to establish why our newscasters always sit in the same position regardless of who is reading the news. It looks as if we’ll never find out the answer (unless the BBC do decide to tell me the secret).

      1. Norah avatar

        I guess it is a conscious decision. I wonder why.

  2. itsmyhusbandandme avatar
    itsmyhusbandandme

    Yes I have noticed left and right TV presenters. It’s weird. Driving? In London? Happy to defer to anyone! As for alcohol… I’ve been in some very stereotypical environments in my time – one guy actually offered to “get the drinks in” making reference to wine for the girls and beer for the boys. He almost fell off his chair when I asked for a glass of dry white wine.
    JP

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      I don’t blame you for letting somebody else do the driving in London. If I stuck to the routes I knew, then I was fine. If I was driving to somewhere for the first time then I was happy to sit back and not complain to my other half about his driving. (Not that I ever do of course 🤔)

  3. Mabel Kwong avatar

    Brilliant observations you raised here, Hugh. I wish there could be more diversity about it all. Maybe the men sit on the women’s right (our left) to the screen is due to the undetones of the way our society works. Doesn’t mean they are always ‘right’. In my family, they men always get to seat in the car seats up front all the time. No one ever disputes this. One time as a teen I wanted to sit in the front and my dad said no :(

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      It’s amazing what other invisible stereotyping I’ve also observed since writing this post, Mabel. However, that’s going to have to be another post for another day.

      Interesting what you say about who sits in the front of the car in your family. I think it’s down to the way we are brought up, as well as culture. It’s certainly been an interesting debate.

  4. jjspina avatar

    Interesting observation, Hugh! I never paid much attention to placement of newscasters but now that you brought my attention to it I notice that on USA news stations the woman is always on the left and the man on the right. Strange, huh? Good post! 😘

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Thanks, Janice. I wonder why women newsreaders are always on the left and men on the right in your part of the world? Does beg the question “why not swap them around every now and again?” I guess we’ll never find out. 😖

  5. The Champa Tree avatar

    What an interesting read. Sharing it on my FB wall!

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Thank you very much. That’s very kind.

  6. Sarah Potter Writes avatar

    In reality, the man is sitting to her right in the TV studio, but we’re opposite the screen and seeing him to the left. (OK, I give you permission to let out a loud sigh at that comment, just as my husband would do).
    I usually let my husband do the driving just because I don’t particularly like driving unless it’s absolutely necessary.
    In pubs, I usually ask for water or a cup of tea these days. In the old days, I drank pints of beer rather than wine.

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Thanks, Sarah, but why do they never ever change positions? Every day, the man sits on the left of the screen and the woman on the right. It even happens on ITV. And it seems to be the same in many parts of the world. I think somebody is trying to cover this up. The Great Sofa Mystery. I keep waiting for a knock on the door in the dead of night because I feel like I am uncovering something here….😀

      1. Sarah Potter Writes avatar

        I suppose it’s part of that old “chicken syndrome” thing, that people always gravitate to the same seat as their roosting spot.

        1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

          But even when a different male and female presenter take over, they still sit man on the left and woman on the right. It’s a strange setup. Sarah.

  7. macjam47 avatar

    I think you hit the nail on the head here. I have to say, in the US the stereotypes are much the same. I see even in instances where the wife has a more powerful and higher paid position than her husband, most often the man drives. Stereotypes are walls that have been built and maintained over time. Walls take time to come down.

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Nicely put, Michelle. 👍

  8. noelleg44 avatar

    Thank you for tackling this topic…seriously! You make some valid points – I don’t drive when my husband is with me because he prefers it this way. I drive only when he is very,very tired, despite the fact I am a good driver! We do NOT put both men in front when driving with another couple, though. Would love to do a survey of which side of the bed men/women prefer!

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      The bed thing was mentioned in some other comments, but I’m going to leave that for somebody else to do. I’ve got myself into a little trouble with this post, so moving on swiftly… 😀
      Thank you for joining in with the debate, Noelle.

  9. Aimer Boyz avatar
    Aimer Boyz

    Thanks for the breakfast smiles, Hugh. As to the TV presenter thing, which I have never noticed, I think it’s a continuation of the “woman walks on the man’s left side”. He’s the important one, she’s the sidekick. I wonder, does Robin stand on Batman’s left?…

    As to driving, after years of my husband being a pain about how I drive and playing with all the settings in the care, we have come to a truce. If we take my car, I drive.

    As to who gets to sit in the front passenger seat, it’s all about height and who has the longest legs. Also, age is a factor. When my mother was in her 80s, she got the front seat. It was pretty funny watching my son try to squeeze into the back seat of my convertible so his grandmother could have the front :)

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      You’re very welcome, Aimer. Thank you for joining in with the debate. Most of the questions seem to now have been answered, but the mystery of male/female positions on the sofa is still a mystery. And it doesn’t look as if the BBC are going to give me the answer. 😖

      1. Aimer Boyz avatar
        Aimer Boyz

        LOL! They may not know either. Sometimes, it’s just a convention so old that no one knows why :)

  10. dgkaye avatar

    Interesting analysis Hugh. But maybe these observances are British related, lol. Ironically, on our newscasts, typically the woman sits on the left and the man on the right. Possibly the couples in the car thing goes back to chivalry, the man drives, the woman relaxes (providing she’s not backseat driving to her man like I do, lol). But typically, if 2 heterosexual couples are driving in car, the one man drives, his gal sits up front and the other couple are in the back. Of course there are exceptions, the guys need more room sometimes so they boot the chicks to the back lol. Now, have I just confused your theory? LOL :) <3

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      No, not at all, Debby 😀 It’s good to hear that it’s different in your part of the world (even if you have just blown a few of the theories, left in the comments, out of the water) 😀 However, do you ever have two men reading the news together, or is it always one man and one woman?

      1. dgkaye avatar

        Mostly one of each, just opposite positions. :)

  11. Terri Webster Schrandt avatar

    Perhaps it’s a symmetry thing? I watch Good Morning America and George is on (my) right and Robin on the left. When four sit together, both men and women change spots leaving George and Robin there. Hmmm. I do most of the driving, but then again, my hubby drives like grampa, LOL. And, yes, I’ve been known to toss back a shot of good whiskey. I like that Piehole, apple-pie flavored moonshine :) And after you made me recall where media stars sit, I’m heading to the liquor cabinet now. ;)

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Do you think so, Terri? I never thought about it from a symmetry point of view. So, it sounds as if on ‘Good Morning America’ they do it the other way around and the man sits on the right-hand of the screen? That knocks a few of the other theories, left in the comments, out of the water. Maybe it’s just a British thing? So, when there are two men and two women it’s a man – woman – man – woman line up? What about only two men presenting the news? Does that ever happen? This morning, on the BBC’s ‘Breakfast’ programme, it was two women presenting the show, but I’ve yet to see just two men ever present the show.
      Phew! Now I need a drink…and it’s only 9.30am!

      1. Terri Webster Schrandt avatar

        Well, you opened this little can o’ worms, Hugh, so drinks all around, LOL! You made us all think! I cannot recall when I have see two men present. And most women do not present the hard news…

        1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

          Ah, so there are some signs of invisible stereotyping in your part of the world then. I’ll have to get Miss Maple to investigate all of this. She did a very good job in one of my early short stories.
          Thanks for joining the debate, Terri.

          1. Terri Webster Schrandt avatar

            I’ve now noticed this more keenly, and now that I am watching Olympic coverage “full-time” this concept should play out on the screen!

  12. Mary Smith avatar

    I hadn’t noticed the newsreader positions before you brought it to my attention but I will now. Maybe we should ask the television people if there is a reason?
    Driving – if we’re out together he usually drives (while I snipe about dodgy lane-changing from the passenger seat) but the upside is I am the one who can drink – which follows nicely on to yes, I drink whisky. I’m Scottish, born on Islay, don’t think I had a choice.

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      I don’t think the BBC will give their reasons away, Mary. I was hoping they would have been in touch with me by now, but it seems the sofa position mystery is one that may never be solved.
      Good to hear about the whisky. I’ll pass that message on to my sister-in-law.

  13. Janice Wald avatar

    Hi Hugh,
    Why did I think you were taking a break from blogging? Is the break over?
    I never noticed that men sit on one side and women on the other. In orthodox religions, they are separated, but that is all I know. I will try to be more cognizant of this going forward!
    Janice

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Not quite yet, Janice. I’m waiting for my book to come back from my Editor, then I’ll be disappearing again. 😀
      I only wrote this post as I had to get it off my chest. I just hope we can solve the sofa position mystery because it’s driving me crazy. I don’t think the BBC will ever tell me why they do it, though.

  14. John W. Howell avatar

    I got up today and didn’t know what I was going to worry about next. Thank you for the subject of invisible stereotyping. (I don’t want a pint of beer, thank you. I would like a nice Viognier.) Now I know why that guy is looking at me funny. LOL

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      I hope it didn’t worry you too much, John. 😀 I’m with you on the Viognier. We just need to convince those guys in the bar scenes on the TV and in the movies.

      1. John W. Howell avatar

        We could start with a slug right out of the bottle. :-D

  15. floridaborne avatar

    My parents used to watch the Huntley-Brinkley report before it was considered politically incorrect to have 2 white guys telling you the news. Walter Cronkite was THE name in news, trusted by my parents more so than H-B. The only time you saw a woman giving any kind of news report was feel-good, mindless stuff, but as far as delivering the hard news? The other side of never. .

    Stereotypes don’t want to die and will do anything to remain alive. Take, for example, in the 1950’s where the jokes about ditzy women drivers were rampant. One journalist went to car insurance companies for statistics, finding that women were the better drivers and their insurance rates were much lower. How did the men of the time react to this? By saying that it was women’s bad driving caused them to have accidents. :-)

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Many years ago we had much the same issue with women presenting the weather on TV, but I’m very pleased to say that it is now most certainly a thing of the past. Just as is a woman presenting sport. However, there are still areas in sport where women are still excluded. In this day and age, that is a very sad thing.

      1. floridaborne avatar

        I think exclusion is a problem, but an even deeper problem is the abysmal lack of respect for a woman who chooses to take care of a house, be there for her children, and give her husband the support he needs to keep going to work everyday. It is still looked down upon.

        My mom was the CEO of our home. She sewed our clothes, did everything related to the house and lawn, and paid the bills. My father would never have survived without her, and he would’ve been the first one to tell you that. :-)

        After staying home with children for 3 1/2 years, it was clear that I wasn’t strong enough to be a housewife.

        1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

          I’ve not come across any women who have suffered from lack of respect for choosing to be a stay at home mum. However, I have come across quite a few men who find it beneath themselves to help with the household chores. That flabbergasps me, but even more are those who admitt to not knowning how to iron a shirt and expecting their partner to do it even though she may also have a fulltime job. I do admire those men who choose to become househusbands so that their wife can progress in their career. That seems to be newish concept that has now been around for the last ten or so years. Fifty years ago I think it would have almost been a crime for a man to want to be a househusband. I don’t think the word ‘househusband’ even existed back then. Thank goodess the humanrace is still progreesing in the right direction, although there’s still lots more work to be done.

          1. floridaborne avatar

            I’m happy to hear that you know of househusbands. I’ve never personally met one, but I’ve heard of them.

            I’ve lived in various parts of the USA and most women have full time jobs, yet when they go home they do all the housework and cooking while their husband sits in front of the TV to “wind down.” Then there are the hubbys who don’t care if the house is clean. It means that she ends up cleaning because someone has to do it. The feminist movement was for a woman to have the choice to work or stay home. We ended up being saddled with both.

            1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

              As I said, we’ve still got lots of work to do in this and many other areas, and I’ve even heard of the situation you described but when it’s been the other way around.

            2. floridaborne avatar

              Thanks for the dialogue. It helps to have other perspectives to ponder.

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