The other day, I came across a wonderfully written blog post after clicking a link on Mastodon. But the trouble was that I seemed to be the first visitor to that blog, even though the post had been published in May 2023. But it didn’t end there.

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Don’t do this with your blog.

I always find it sad to discover a well-written blog post over a few months old that has captivated me but generated no comments or likes. It’s like it’s been cut adrift, floating around in the deepest, darkest part of the blogging world, where few venture.

Yet there are blog posts I lose interest in after only reading the first few lines that have hundreds of likes and lots of comments.

Not all of those likes will have been generated by people who read the post, and I call many of the comments dead-end comments that fail to ignite any proper discussion.

What are the clues to an unwelcoming blog?

I couldn’t help but feel sorry for the blogger whose post I’d found via Mastodon. I wondered how they feel when they see other badly written posts that have generated lots of likes and comments.

Of course, just because a post has no comments and nobody has clicked the like button doesn’t mean nobody has read it, but how must that blogger feel when they see that their post hasn’t generated any engagement? Do they feel sad or cheated, or do they not care because they wrote and published the post just for themselves?

Looking more closely at the rest of the blog where I found the post, I did find some clues as to why nobody seems to be visiting and engaging with it.

For a start, none of the 15 posts had been categorised. They were all uncategorised. One of the posts was password-protected, so you could not see the contents unless you knew the password. And there was no information about how to obtain the password.

None of the posts had tags attached, meaning they would not appear on any search results page.

Although there was a ‘Contact the Blogger’ page, the ‘About the Blogger’ page contained only a photo. Who is this person? Where in the world are they located? What do they blog about? What are their interests? Why do they want you to read and follow their blog? All you can do is guess the answers to these questions.

Their first post was published in January 2019, meaning, on average, they only publish 4 blog posts a year. Not a lot, you may think, but I’ve seen blogs that publish one post every three months do well.

Imagine my delight when I checked the other 14 posts and found one with a single comment. Somebody had discovered this blog before I had. Somebody had visited, looked around, liked what they had found, and left a lovely comment. But this blog was lifeless, like an uninhabited planet; there was no response to the comment. Whoever was here three years before I arrived had left empty-handed.

The overall look of the blog was clean and simple. No fancy menus or widgets to click, so it was more of a place where visitors could hang out and engage. Yet, the sheer fact that there seemed to be nobody there had probably put visitors off from following and engaging.

I tried contacting the blog’s owner, but my words bounced back as an echo in this deserted, uninviting place. Maybe they only check in to their blog every three months. We’ll wait and see, but I think I’ll prepare my spaceship and visit another new blog where I hope I find some inhabitants who want to engage with more than just themselves.

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80 responses to “Is Your Blog A Friendly Welcoming Place? This Is How Not To Run A Blog”

  1. dgkaye avatar

    Brilliant storytelling in this post Hugh. I am still laughing out loud about the lone planet. Lol :) x

    1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

      Those bloggers who don’t engage and never seem to get any visitors or engagement reminded me of a lone planet, Debby. Nobody goes there because it’s not a very inviting place, even though it’s been there a long time.

      1. dgkaye avatar

        You are so right, and entertaining at the same time. :) :)

  2. EsmeSalon avatar
    EsmeSalon

    After reading your post and all the comments, forwards and backward, I must admit that I have nothing more to add that will be of value that’s not already mentioned above. Only recently I started to receive comments, and I will always respond to any comment left on any of my blog posts. A blog is not a one-way street, mingle with your blogging friends, ask them questions, respond to them, and open up your blog for more interaction.
    Thank you for sharing your links with us at #276 SSPS Linky. See you again next week.

    1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

      That’s excellent advice; thank you, Esme. I only wish all bloggers would respond to the comments left on their blogs.

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  4. seaangel4444 avatar

    Thank you so much, dear Hugh. Your post has inspired me to get on with it and overhaul my categories. I have only categorized by month/year. However, after reading your post and thinking about it from a new perspective, I have to do a much better job placing posts in more descriptive categories. “March 2015” doesn’t say much about the content. Huge appreciation! Thanks, Hugh! Cher xoxoxo

    1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

      You don’t need to have many categories, Cher. But you can also have sub-categories, so the category photography could have a sub-category of Wordless Wednesday.

      1. seaangel4444 avatar

        That’s a great idea, Hugh! Here I was thinking, oh dear, I need to do some serious category creating, but having sub-categories under photography would be perfect! Thank you, Hugh! Cher xoxoxo

  5. lwlarkema avatar

    I have been working hard to make my blog user friendly, inviting, engaging, and also focus on SEO at the same time. I feel like I have put in so much, but I am still not reaching many people at all. I do agree, it does feel quite defeating when I spend weeks writing a post (I work full-time and have kids so I only work on posts at night), to only get a couple comments from blogs that reached me through visiting theirs. I don’t mind engaging with other blogs, but it makes me wonder if they truly liked the content, or if they were just engaging to engage. Thank you for the thoughtful post, I’m glad to know my blog is not the only one that doesn’t get much traffic. Hopefully, not for the reasons listed though.

    1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

      For a start, I’d recommend you check the link to your blog and Gravatar, as when I click them, I only see the following.

      So, as you can see, visiting your blog is impossible unless visitors have the right links. Once you fix them, you may see an upturn in visitors and engagement.

  6. ajeanneinthekitchen avatar

    I think there are a lot of reasons. For me personally, I like pictures. If blog posts are hard to respond to, I usually won’t, even if I like the blog. I think they have to be user friendly. Sometimes there are blogs that just are too difficult to leave a response to, or to add a simple “like”. I can’t speak for anyone else, but I get overwhelmed with emails daily, and I simply don’t have the time to fight with difficult blog sites. Often times because I do not have the time, I hit “like”, but not all blog sites have that option.

    1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

      I agree about those blogs that don’t make it easy to leave comments. I have that problem when trying to leave comments on the Blogger platform. No wonder blogs on that platform don’t have a very good engagement rate.

      With regards to being overwhelmed with emails, are these email notifications about new blog posts? If so, it sounds as if you’re following too many blogs and need to cull some, especially if you’re not interested in the content they publish. That always helps.

      1. ajeanneinthekitchen avatar

        Thanks for the tips. How do you build your own following without following others though?

        1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

          A follow for a follow doesn’t work. Unfortunately, some bloggers who follow you will unfollow you as soon as you follow them back. And there is no way of knowing that they have unfollowed you. Following blogs that do not interest you will simply waste your time.

          Just follow blogs that publish content that interests you. Leave engaging comments on their posts. Other bloggers who read the comments will see your engaging comments and may visit your blog and follow you.

          Joining in with blogging challenges and prompts also helps. The hosts will invite you to leave a pingback to your post that will appear in the comments section of their post. Other participants will click the link to see your entry for the challenge and may follow you if they’re interested in your published content.

          1. ajeanneinthekitchen avatar

            Good to know. Thank you. :)

            1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

              You’re welcome.

  7. Eugi avatar

    I am so glad you wrote about this topic, Hugh. Blogs with no visible menu, tags, and an About Me page are not my cup of tea. Also, the same with blogs that are password protected. I’ve seen blogs that have an appealing appearance and beautiful content but lack clear navigation.

    I’ve tried to help a few new bloggers by suggesting how important it is for readers to be able to find their way through their blogs.

    I feel joining in prompts will help bloggers become more well-known, though I understand prompts are not for everyone. Also, it takes time to build an audience, and commenting on other blogs is the best way to let others know you are legit and have common interests.

    1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

      It’s good to hear that you have tried to help other bloggers, Eugi. I remember when I first found a blog post that contained blogging tips. I felt like I’d found treasure. But I know some bloggers don’t like taking advice and will do it their way. Good for them, but we can all but try and help where we can.

      Participating in prompts and blog challenges certainly helps gain traffic and readers. I’ve had a lot of success with participating in both. Although I no longer engage on other blogs as much as I did, I only put that down to no longer commenting for the sake of commenting, especially when I felt obliged to comment. That was a bit of a fool’s game, given how it wastes so much time. Now I only read and comment on the blog posts that interest me, and only comment when I have something of value to add.

      1. Eugi avatar

        Good advice on commenting, Hugh. We can only do what we can do,

  8. Joey J 📸 avatar

    I think that the saddest thing is doing everything right (category, tags, etc.) but still not getting much access at all. 😅

    1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

      That’s true. I guess when that happens, it’s more about the lack of engagement.

      1. Joey J 📸 avatar

        I agree! But it also means that if we stop engaging with other bloggers, the traffic drops, which is also sad. 😅 Ideally, I don’t want to rely on engagement to get traffic. The best is Google bringing traffic, but for that, our SEO has to be very good, which is also very difficult. 😅

        1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

          I find that finding a good balance of both helps. Well, it seems to have worked for me.

  9. Michelle (Boomer Eco Crusader) avatar

    I often scratch my head in the blogging world, Hugh. I see other bloggers who put out what I call “fluff” and they have thousands of followers. It took me ages to get to 100. I learned early on not to play the comparison game when it comes to numbers, though. No good comes of it! It is a shame when you want to engage with someone and they make it difficult to do so, or they don’t respond to thoughtful comments.

    1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

      I agree, Michelle. For many bloggers, the numbers are important to start with, but so is the hard work to gain and keep those followers. I firmly believe that blogging and engagement go hand in hand with each other, but some bloggers seem pretty happy with not engaging, which makes me wonder why they don’t mark their blogs as private so that only they can see them? Maybe they don’t know how to, so that’s probably why some blogs have the feel of an uninhabited planet.

  10. JT Twissel avatar

    Not that I don’t make many of those mistakes, but I have run into unfriendly blogs. Visiting other planets is a brilliant analogy!

    1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

      Thank you, I’m glad you think so. I see all of our blogs as planets circling WordPress. The further you go out, the darker and uninviting it is.

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