Christmas Cards: Do You Send Them? Do You Receive Them? How To Avoid The Dilemmas

If receiving Christmas cards were a hobby, it would be a hobby I’d embrace and never let go of.  

I’ve always preferred receiving Christmas cards to birthday cards. They’ve always been more important to me, but over the years have caused me a few dilemmas. Do you recognise any of these?

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Christmas cards. Are they a problem?

How to display Christmas cards

My parents always strung Christmas cards along our lounge’s longest wall. I’d stand underneath the line and count them every day. And if any of the cards overlap, I’d make it known so they could be adjusted. I wanted every Christmas card to give the same pleasure to visitors as I got out of them over the festive period.

I’d tell my school friends how many Christmas cards we had and keep a record of the number every year. The most we ever got was 106. So many that the line they hung on came down. I cried so much that my parents had to console me with chocolate.

Don’t hang too many Christmas cards on one line. If they are overlapping, put up another line.

These days, we display cards on a card rack. The overlapping doesn’t seem to bother me as much as it used to. However, I seem to prioritise those cards I see as more festive, so they don’t get pushed to the back of the rack.

How do you display Christmas cards?

Christmas at school

During my early schooling years, my class would send Christmas cards to each other. Back then, Christmas cards came in different sizes in one box. The first dilemma was matching the correct-sized envelope to the right card. 

Usually, you’d end up with a couple of cards that didn’t fit the envelopes you had left or, on rare occasions, have cards left with no envelopes. 

These days, Christmas cards seem to come in packs and are all the same size, so the dilemma of matching envelopes with cards has gone. But if you don’t have enough envelopes, dig out the spare cards from last Christmas. It’s unlikely people remember what Christmas card you sent them last year.

Christmas cards for school friends

We’d make a pillar box out of cardboard, cotton wool, paints and some sticky-back plastic. We were all encouraged to post Christmas cards into the box, and on the last day before the Christmas holidays, our teacher would sort them and distribute them out. 

I’d always be super excited to get a pile of cards with my name proudly written on the front of the envelopes. I’d open them all before rushing home to hang them with the rest of the cards, careful not to snap the line.

If there wasn’t enough room on the line, I had to wait patiently for my father to put another up. Sometimes, this could take days, and I’d get frustrated that my cards were not on display.

After Christmas, I’d keep the cards I liked the most and make gift tags out of them for the following Christmas.

Did you send Christmas cards to your classmates?

The first Christmas card

The first Christmas card was sent in 1843. Back then, there were no signs of robins, snow, Christmas stockings or Father Christmas on them. Most cards showed people drinking, eating and being merry.

It wasn’t until the 1870s that Christmas cards began to display some of the festive images we see today.

  

A Victorian Christmas card. Image by DarkmoonArt_de from Pixabay

Back in the 1970s (when I was sending cards to those in my class), I loved certain cards. These include the ones I thought were associated with Christmas. Those showing scenes that had Father Christmas, Christmas stockings, robins, snow, and Christmas trees were my favourites. 

And then there were cards I didn’t particularly like because I thought they had nothing to do with Christmas. These included ones with scenes of horse-drawn carriages, fox hunting, St Paul’s Cathedral, or a hand-drawn poinsettia. 

My favourite classmates always got the cards I associated with Christmas, but my dilemma was who should get the cards I didn’t like. Easy! The classmates I didn’t bother with much (or those I didn’t particularly like) got the boring ones. Back then, you could always tell who didn’t like you much from the type of card they sent you (or so I thought).

Christmas postcards 

Back in the early 20th century, some Christmas cards were like postcards. Many years ago, I picked up some on eBay. This one is my favourite. 

An Old Maid’s Christmas
On the back.

Postmarked Dec 24th 1912, I love the humour on this postcard. I’m not sure it would go down well these days. What do you think?

I can’t make out the postmark on this postcard, but the stamp on it tells me it’s from the U.S.A. 

Christmas postcard from the early 20th century
Christmas postcard from the early 20th century

And here’s another early one from the U.S.A., postmarked Dec 23rd 1913.

Christmas postcard dated Dec 23rd 1913
Christmas postcard dated Dec 23rd 1913

Postal addresses were so short back then.

The best era for Christmas cards

In my opinion, the 1980s were the best era for Christmas cards. Here are a few of my favourites.

I have a scrapbook that includes some of my favourite Christmas cards.

The boyfriend dilemma

Finally, here’s a Christmas card from 1988 that was sent to me by my then-boyfriend.

 

Christmas 1988
Last Christmas, I gave you my heart. By New Year’s Day, I’d taken it away!

Unfortunately, Bob went on to break my heart on New Year’s Eve, yet I kept the Christmas card he sent me. I wonder why?

I hope you enjoyed my brief history of the Christmas card.

Do you send and enjoy receiving Christmas cards? Have you ever had any dilemmas with them? Share them in the comments section.

This post was originally published in 2020 and has been updated and republished.

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92 thoughts on “Christmas Cards: Do You Send Them? Do You Receive Them? How To Avoid The Dilemmas

  1. What a fun post Hugh. I’m with you, there was NOTHING like the 80s! Best years of my life until I met my husband. I miss all the days before the world went digital – especially real cards to ecards and phone calls to text. <3

    1. Thanks, Debby.

      Yes, I agree. Getting a Christmas card in the post or delivered by hand is like getting given a physical book.

      And the 1980s were, without a doubt, the best.

  2. It’s sad that we’re sending cards less and less now. On the flip side, so much paper and card is used so maybe it’s better for the environment if we send less cards.

    1. But the majority of Christmas cards can be recycled, Wayne. Check with your local authority as they will have recycle bins for paper and cards and will probably pick them up from the curbside. Some shops also have recycling bins for Christmas cards. The only cards that can not be recycled are ones with glitter or any attachments like ribbons. I tend to pull off any attachments so that the rest of the card can be recycled.
      The same goes for most wrapping paper. If it can be scrunched up into a ball without unfolding, then it can be recycled.

  3. Hi Hugh – I came back here today as I wondered if I didn’t finish my comment, but it is still in moderation. I know I went to look for a link to send you which you might enjoy and thought maybe I left the comment open. I’ll send the link separately, but on Facebook is a group site for Vintage Greeting Cards and every year they have lots of vintage Christmas cards. I don’t see you saying you’re on Facebook where you mention your social media site, but maybe you are but as “yourself” not your blog name. I’ll send the link separately and please just delete this message.

    1. Hi Linda, I don’t have any accounts on Facebook anymore. I deleted them many years ago, as I’ve never been a Facebook fan. Plus, there were too many trolls leaving horrible posts and messages on there. My main social media channel is Twitter, and I’m still there after the recent Musk takeover. Many people left Twitter, but I stayed and haven’t seen the hatred many people predicted. I’m keeping a close eye on it, though.

      1. Hugh, I’m not on Facebook for hours and hours a day as some people are. I follow local nature/park sites that are not on Twitter, so I know events going on. The people I connected with on Facebook are those from high school mostly as Facebook’s algorithms matched me with people from Lincoln Park, Michigan and the high school graduation year when I signed up. I have nothing in common with these people now to be honest. I’ve turned off their posts to limit what’s in my feed – it’s more polite than unfriending anyone. I follow the neighborhood crime and info forums where people whine and bash each other which is despicable at times, but I’m only there to glean info about crime and pertinent info about the city. The Twitterverse is interesting – I keep current with trends and news and weather. I would miss it. I signed up at the Mastodon platform in case I went there, but it’s no Twitter. :)

        1. I haven’t navigated around enough and the black background and white font will take some getting used to … reminded me of Windows 95.

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