If receiving Christmas cards were a hobby, it would be a hobby I’d embrace and never let go of.  

I’ve always preferred receiving Christmas cards to birthday cards. They’ve always been more important to me, but over the years have caused me a few dilemmas. Do you recognise any of these?

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Christmas cards. Are they a problem?

How to display Christmas cards

My parents always strung Christmas cards along our lounge’s longest wall. I’d stand underneath the line and count them every day. And if any of the cards overlap, I’d make it known so they could be adjusted. I wanted every Christmas card to give the same pleasure to visitors as I got out of them over the festive period.

I’d tell my school friends how many Christmas cards we had and keep a record of the number every year. The most we ever got was 106. So many that the line they hung on came down. I cried so much that my parents had to console me with chocolate.

Don’t hang too many Christmas cards on one line. If they are overlapping, put up another line.

These days, we display cards on a card rack. The overlapping doesn’t seem to bother me as much as it used to. However, I seem to prioritise those cards I see as more festive, so they don’t get pushed to the back of the rack.

How do you display Christmas cards?

Christmas at school

During my early schooling years, my class would send Christmas cards to each other. Back then, Christmas cards came in different sizes in one box. The first dilemma was matching the correct-sized envelope to the right card. 

Usually, you’d end up with a couple of cards that didn’t fit the envelopes you had left or, on rare occasions, have cards left with no envelopes. 

These days, Christmas cards seem to come in packs and are all the same size, so the dilemma of matching envelopes with cards has gone. But if you don’t have enough envelopes, dig out the spare cards from last Christmas. It’s unlikely people remember what Christmas card you sent them last year.

Christmas cards for school friends

We’d make a pillar box out of cardboard, cotton wool, paints and some sticky-back plastic. We were all encouraged to post Christmas cards into the box, and on the last day before the Christmas holidays, our teacher would sort them and distribute them out. 

I’d always be super excited to get a pile of cards with my name proudly written on the front of the envelopes. I’d open them all before rushing home to hang them with the rest of the cards, careful not to snap the line.

If there wasn’t enough room on the line, I had to wait patiently for my father to put another up. Sometimes, this could take days, and I’d get frustrated that my cards were not on display.

After Christmas, I’d keep the cards I liked the most and make gift tags out of them for the following Christmas.

Did you send Christmas cards to your classmates?

The first Christmas card

The first Christmas card was sent in 1843. Back then, there were no signs of robins, snow, Christmas stockings or Father Christmas on them. Most cards showed people drinking, eating and being merry.

It wasn’t until the 1870s that Christmas cards began to display some of the festive images we see today.

  

A Victorian Christmas card. Image by DarkmoonArt_de from Pixabay

Back in the 1970s (when I was sending cards to those in my class), I loved certain cards. These include the ones I thought were associated with Christmas. Those showing scenes that had Father Christmas, Christmas stockings, robins, snow, and Christmas trees were my favourites. 

And then there were cards I didn’t particularly like because I thought they had nothing to do with Christmas. These included ones with scenes of horse-drawn carriages, fox hunting, St Paul’s Cathedral, or a hand-drawn poinsettia. 

My favourite classmates always got the cards I associated with Christmas, but my dilemma was who should get the cards I didn’t like. Easy! The classmates I didn’t bother with much (or those I didn’t particularly like) got the boring ones. Back then, you could always tell who didn’t like you much from the type of card they sent you (or so I thought).

Christmas postcards 

Back in the early 20th century, some Christmas cards were like postcards. Many years ago, I picked up some on eBay. This one is my favourite. 

An Old Maid’s Christmas
On the back.

Postmarked Dec 24th 1912, I love the humour on this postcard. I’m not sure it would go down well these days. What do you think?

I can’t make out the postmark on this postcard, but the stamp on it tells me it’s from the U.S.A. 

Christmas postcard from the early 20th century
Christmas postcard from the early 20th century

And here’s another early one from the U.S.A., postmarked Dec 23rd 1913.

Christmas postcard dated Dec 23rd 1913
Christmas postcard dated Dec 23rd 1913

Postal addresses were so short back then.

The best era for Christmas cards

In my opinion, the 1980s were the best era for Christmas cards. Here are a few of my favourites.

I have a scrapbook that includes some of my favourite Christmas cards.

The boyfriend dilemma

Finally, here’s a Christmas card from 1988 that was sent to me by my then-boyfriend.

 

Christmas 1988
Last Christmas, I gave you my heart. By New Year’s Day, I’d taken it away!

Unfortunately, Bob went on to break my heart on New Year’s Eve, yet I kept the Christmas card he sent me. I wonder why?

I hope you enjoyed my brief history of the Christmas card.

Do you send and enjoy receiving Christmas cards? Have you ever had any dilemmas with them? Share them in the comments section.

This post was originally published in 2020 and has been updated and republished.

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92 responses to “Christmas Cards: Do You Send Them? Do You Receive Them? How To Avoid The Dilemmas”

  1. The Coastal Crone avatar

    Love those old Christmas cards! Good history. I still send cards, usually with a sea theme and a little holly. Happy holidays to you!

    1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

      Thank you. Holly on Christmas cards is also another favourite of mine. I still put sprigs of holly behind picture frames hanging on our walls. It’s a tradition I’ve stuck with that my parents always did at Christmas.

  2. Janis @ RetirementallyChallenged.com avatar

    We get fewer and fewer each year. We also send out fewer and fewer. I don’t mind Christmas letters but I really dislike the postcards people send with just pictures of their family printed on one side. Boring, lazy, and a bit narcissistic (IMHO).

    I still have the album my mother created of the cards they sent every year. So many memories. I just can’t talk myself into getting rid of it… I guess whoever cleans out our house when we are gone will have to throw it away :)

    1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

      I’d love to see that album of cards that your mother kept, Janis. I hate the thought of it being thrown away. Those cards will be priceless and have lots of history. If you get the chance, I’d love to see some pictures of them.

  3. Paul avatar

    Hi Hugh. Yes I do send Christmas cards and I think they are so much better than e-cards. Like you I thought I’d send ours early but when I got to the local post office, the post boxes /sacks were overflowing (presumably due to the strikes) so I had to post them in our nearest post box. You’ve got some great Christmas card images there and I agree the 80’s ones are more fun and colourful than the ones currently being sold. I do feel strongly about the need to maintain the Christmas card tradition and this is the subject of a post I did back last December titled, ‘Christmas cards are coming, and why a goat is not just for Christmas’. (see link https://thebloggler81901823.wordpress.com/2021/12/18/christmas-cards-are-coming-and-why-a-goat-is-not-just-for-christmas/ ). It didn’t get a big response but Mike whose hosts the blog ‘A bit about Britain’ commented and gave ma a link to his fascinating post about the history of Christmas cards in Britain (see link https://bitaboutbritain.com/a-bit-about-christmas-cards/ ). Anyway, you have a Merry Christmas !

    1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

      Hi Paul,

      Good to hear you still send Christmas cards.

      Same here; I sent ours early because of the postal strikes. However, I was surprised that many of the cards I sent last Friday by 2nd class post arrived the following morning. I wasn’t expecting that, so it was an added bonus. I feel more at ease knowing they’ve arrived, especially with more strike dates coming up.

      Thank you for the links to your post and the post by Mike. I’ll certainly have a read of them.

      Merry Christmas to you.

      And keep up that tradition of sending Christmas cards. We need to ensure that eCards don’t become the norm at Christmas.

  4. davydwriter avatar

    What a wonderful post, Hugh. I seem to get less bothered with Christmas cards as I get older, but your words and pictures have rekindled some fond memories. I still have the habit of counting Christmas cards, whenever I see them displayed, and wondered if this was something passed down by older generations. More people seem to send cards via email these days.

    1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

      Thank you, Davy; glad you enjoyed reading it.

      It’s good to hear reading this post rekindled some fond memories of Christmas cards. I still count how many we get every year. As I got older, that number decreased, but I hope to reverse that situation.

      eCards have certainly taken off, but like reading a book you can actually hold in your hands, there’s nothing quite like receiving a Christmas card in the post. They beat eCards every time.

  5. Judith Barrow avatar

    Love these Christmas cards of yours, Hugh. x

    1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

      Thank you, Judith. I’ve always been a massive fan of Christmas cards. I love sending and receiving them. This is my time of the year.

      1. Judith Barrow avatar

        I loved your cards, Hugh.I like old postcards. Christmas isn’t a good time for me, Unfortunately, but it’s good to see the family at this time. xx

        1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

          Christmas is very much about spending time with family and loved ones, Judith. And given how the last two Christmases were affected by Covid, I’m sure many people will love seeing family and friends again this Christmas.

          1. Judith Barrow avatar

            Absolutely, Hugh. xx

  6. Brenda avatar

    I’m planning to write my cards over the next couple of days, so a little behind you. I also love writing letters – but don’t send circulars – so I can end up with writer’s cramp … maybe I should write my message in a blog post and just put my blog address in the cards 🤣

    I love receiving cards and ‘properly letters and notes in the cards

    1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

      The current Royal Mail strikes mean I sent my Christmas cards earlier than usual this year, Brenda. I posted them using 2nd class stamps last Friday and was amazed that some arrived the next day! But I don’t think I’d have been happy leaving them later because of all the strikes. I’m also going to give a Christmas tip to Carl, our postman, this year, as he’s done a great job this year.

      1. Brenda avatar

        I know what you mean. Denis, our postie has said the delivery office is overflowing with parcels due to backlogs. I agree its going to get worse. I’ve had to replan some classes for next week with the rail strikes.

        1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

          I think we’re in for a bit of an upheaval this winter, Brenda. Take care out there.

  7. Alessandra Chaves avatar

    Thank you for the story of Christmas cards. I love them. I make my own based on my own photography work. The list of folks I send them to, however, is shrinking. Many have died. Some friends from the las have moved and left no trace.

    1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

      Thank you.

      I mentioned in a previuos comment that somebody said to me, ‘You know when you’re getting older, by the fewer people there are on your Christmas card list.’ It’s a sad fact, so I’m always happy when I add new people to my Christmas card list.

      And it’s good to hear that you still make Christmas cards. I’m sure they bring lots of happiness to those that receive them.

  8. Becky Ross Michael avatar

    I love vintage Christmas cards!

    1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

      Good to hear. There are usually lots of them on eBay.

      1. Becky Ross Michael avatar

        I imagine; I’m almost afraid to look because I’ll want to buy!

        1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

          I know what you mean. I’m the same when it comes to Christmas cards.

  9. WorldWideWalkies avatar

    Oooh, I love Christmas cards – and post cards – but sadly, fewer people send them these days. I always think it’s nice to receive something other than a bill through the post!
    I went through a period of making my own greetings cards – it was one way to channel my creativity. Now, I write! :-)
    The pictures of the old ones are so wonderful. They are so evocative, like old photos, and they make you wonder about the story behind the people who sent them.
    Christmas cards and the images on them always made me feel Christmassy. Like you, I am a fan of robins!

    1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

      Since the introduction of eCards, the number of Christmas cards has decreased. I’m not a lover of eCards, as it’s not something you can hang up through the festive season. But I guess they are more environmentally friendly? However, I do recycle all of my Christmas cards (unless they have items on them that are not recyclable).

      It’s good to hear how creative you are. I used to make my own Christmas cards, but that was long ago.

      The old Christmas cards certainly have their appeal, don’t they? And I’d love to know more about the people behind the ones I have and who sent them. I wonder if Miss Hannah ever married after receiving that Christmas postcard?

      1. WorldWideWalkies avatar

        I hope Miss Hannah had a very happy life!
        We don’t get Christmas cards, being permanent nomads and of no fixed abode, but I do love them. I like the IDEA of the no-waste e cards, but it’s not the same… Like I’ve accepted Kindle, but it’s not quite the smell and feel of a real book…!

        1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

          I agree about Kindle Vs an actual book. And it’s the same for me with Christmas cards. It’s not the same getting an eCard instead of an actual Christmas card. I want to put every card on display during the festive season.

  10. Erika avatar

    Wow, some of those cards are real treasures. It is true there were eras when Christmas cards were artworks. Thanks to your inspiration two years ago, I started sending Christmas cards again 😊

    1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

      How wonderful that the inspiration from this post got you to start sending Christmas cards again, Erika. And you’re right about the artwork on Christmas cards from times gone by. Back then, everything will have had to have been hand-drawn. It must have kept some people in jobs all year long.

      1. Erika avatar

        Oh, yes, and what wonderful jobs that must have been.

  11. Dan Antion avatar

    We still get some cards. We stopped sending them when our daughter was in college and we were watching spending closely. We also get a few of the dreaded Christmas Letters. Some are welcome, some are like a summary of someone’s Facebook feed on steroids.

    1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

      Oh, Dan! Those dreaded Christmas circulars (as I call them) found inside Christmas cards that have a full year’s update, much of which I probably already know, anyway. However, I rather get one of them than a pile of glitter falling from inside a card to the floor. No matter how hard I try, I can never get rid of all the glitter until the following Christmas.

      1. Dan Antion avatar

        Glitter cards are the worst.

        1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

          I agree. And wrapping paper that has glitter on it is even worse.

          1. Brenda avatar

            I hate glitter too … glad I’ve not seen glittered paper 😬

            1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

              I still have several rolls of wrapping paper with glitter that my partner bought many years ago. I was going to give them to the charity shop but thought better of it.

  12. Liesbet @ Roaming About avatar

    Christmas was never a big thing in my Belgian family. New Year’s Day was the big event, a day on which we visited all our family members over two or three stops. That’s also when school letters for the New Year were read by the children and gifts exchanged.

    I used to collect and save all the cards I ever received, but when my parents sold my childhood home a few years ago, most went into the recycling bin.

    No dilemma’s here. I don’t have a postal address, so that’s the best excuse to not send or receive Christmas cards. :-)

    1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

      You’ve got the best excuse of all, Liesbet. But what a shame all those childhood memories were recycled.

      I always thought Christmas Eve was the big day in mainland Europe, whereas it’s always been Christmas Day in the UK. So to hear that New Year’s Day is the big day in Belgium came as a bit of a surprise.

      1. Liesbet @ Roaming About avatar

        That might have been typical just in my family. Although the New Years’ letters, written in rhyme at school, making promises for the new year, is definitely nationwide. Maybe some families celebrated both events…

  13. Miss Judy avatar

    One year I made cards for our families. I thought of making a business selling online. Not one of the 12 commented on my effort. That dashed my business plan. Now I don’t send cards.

    1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

      Miss Judy, I’m sorry your online Christmas card business did not work. Are Christmas cards still popular in your part of the world?

      1. Miss Judy avatar

        I’m easily dissuaded. No, family photos with a holiday greeting on a postcard are about all we get. The cost of a postage stamp is also a deterrent.

        1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

          Yes, postage stamps have increased a lot in price. I tend to buy my Christmas stamps throughout the year to spread the cost. It doesn’t seem to cost as much doing it that way, but I know it’ll all add up to the same.

          1. Miss Judy avatar

            😃 Good thinking

  14. Darlene avatar

    We get fewer every year but I still enjoy sending and receiving them. I love the old ones you shared.

    1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

      Thank you. I love the older Christmas cards too. There is something about them that makes them much more traditional than the ones of today.

  15. Annette Rochelle Aben avatar

    I make them and I send them! I receive them, though not as many as in years past. I believe that this year I have sent 100+ to family and friends all over the world. Some friends date back 50 years. What fun I am having!!

    1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

      I love that you make your own Christmas cards, Annette. I remember making my own Christmas cards, but it was many, many years ago. We’ve sent out just over 70 cards this year. Somebody told me, “You know you’re getting older when your Christmas card list gets shorter.’ that’s true, considering we used to send out over 100.

      I want to increase my Christmas card list, so let’s exchange cards next Christmas. Yes?

      1. Annette Rochelle Aben avatar

        Oh yes! I don’t know how to get my address to you or get yours to me, but I am all about this. xox

        1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

          I see you have an email address on your blog. I can email you my details if that email is still correct? Otherwise, you can contact me personally via the ‘Contact Hugh’ button on the menubar of my blog.

          1. Annette Rochelle Aben avatar

            I just used the contact form (duh, why didn’t I think if that?) xx

            1. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

              No worries. I’ve got the message. And as I was on my way to the Post Office for the final time before Christmas, there is a Christmas card on its way to you. I hope it reaches you by the 25th.

            2. Annette Rochelle Aben avatar

              Awesome, and if you email me your address, I will zip one off for you! <3

            3. Hugh W. Roberts avatar

              On its way to you.

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