This is no joke. Sorry if you thought I was going to double you up with laughter. No, today I’m talking stereotyping! I thought it was a thing of the past, but it seems it’s as evident today as it has always been.

Take, for example, television. Have you ever noticed that in a pub scene on a TV show, the men seem to be constantly drinking pints or bottles of beer, while the women drink glasses of wine or a gin-and-vodka tonic?

How often have you seen a man in a pub scene drinking a glass of wine and a woman drinking a beer? Some may say it’s down to taste, but surely not all the men in Coronation Street only drink beer while the women always order a glass of wine?

I’ll give it to Emmerdale (another UK soap opera), as I have seen at least one female character (the vicar!) drinking a pint of beer. It’s refreshing to see, but I’ve yet to see any men walk in and ask for a gin and tonic! It’s always “pint please, Chas.”

Let’s turn our attention to the news. I know many people don’t watch the news on TV because it’s always depressing, but take ‘Breakfast’, the BBC’s early morning news programme.

Why does the man always sit on the left of the screen, while his co-presenter, a woman, always sits on the right? Is it some kind of power struggle? Why can’t they occasionally swap positions?

Charlie State and Naga Munchetty
Charlie State and Naga Munchetty, Presenters of the BBC’s Breakfast – He always sits on the left while she always sits on the right. Picture of my TV screen taken by me.

This leads me to wonder why it always has to be a man and a woman when two people read the news on TV. ‘Breakfast’ occasionally has two women presenting the show, but I’ve never seen it with two men. Why? Is it not acceptable for two men to present the news together?

It’s precisely the same over on ITV. The man sits on the left of the screen while the woman always sits on the right.

Have you noticed that the male presenter seems much older (not you, Charlie) than the woman presenter? Very rarely is it the other way around? Is there a reason for that?

Let’s move on to driving. Yesterday, while waiting to cross the road, I counted the cars that drove past, where a man and woman were sitting in the front of the vehicle. Would you be surprised if I told you that it was the man who was driving in just about all of the cars?

I saw it while on holiday as well. The man usually drives a hired vehicle while the woman sits in the front passenger seat.

It happens in our family all the time. We go to pick up my sister-in-law and her husband, and I can guarantee that my sister-in-law will sit in the back seat while her husband will sit in the front passenger seat.

The same goes for my niece and her husband. When they come to visit us, he always drives, regardless of whose car they are using.

Take two couples going off on a car journey together. Why do the men always sit together in the front while the two women sit in the back of the car?

London 2012 Olympic Games
Celebrating at the London 2012 Olympic Games

Sport also suffers from stereotyping. Today, I was delighted to hear that Tom Daley and Dan Goodfellow won an Olympic bronze medal in the synchronised 10m platform diving.

On TV, ‘Breakfast’ mentioned it all morning, and the interview with Daley and Goodfellow was aired far too many times. They even interviewed a friend of Daley and Goodfellow’s, who talked the audience through the last dive more times than I care to remember.

However, where were Clare Balding and Co when Ed Ling won an Olympic bronze medal in the men’s trap shooting for Great Britain? Was he not worthy of an interview, Ms Balding? And why, unlike Daley and Goodfellow, did he only get a few seconds of a mention on ‘Breakfast’? Ed, if you’re reading this, then, unlike the BBC, I’d be delighted to interview you and celebrate the fact that you won an Olympic bronze medal.

Finally, let’s turn back to drink. How many of you ladies enjoy drinking whisky? Does anybody out there consider whisky to be only a man’s drink? Why am I asking these questions? It’s something that recently came up in conversation.

It seems I’m as guilty as most others at stereotyping. Reading through this post, why did I put an exclamation mark after the word vicar? Do vicars not drink alcohol?

Do you have any examples of stereotyping in today’s world? Does it bother you, or is it something we just take for granted?

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147 responses to “Why Do Men Sit On The Left And Women Sit On The Right?”

  1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

    Could it be because alphabetically Greg’s name comes first? Then again, we’re known as John and Hugh, so maybe it’s to do with age? 🤔 I always like to walk on the outside of John so I can protect him if a cyclist mounts the pavement. Or maybe it’s because I can get away from him quickly when I tell him I’ve been spending in the Apple store again? 😂 Who knows, but the answers are probably endless.

  2. Float Ideas avatar

    Good point of view

  3. Andrew Petcher avatar

    I have read about this before. The left hand position is considered the dominant position because that is the way our brain works and we read left to right. Be interesting to watch the news in say, Saudi Arabia, but my guess is that it is two men?

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Trouble is, I’ve never had a view or comment from anybody in Saudi Arabia. I’m guessing that they have just the one man reading the news. Hopefully, somebody will prove me wrong.

  4. kirascribbled avatar

    I always thought my (women’s) positioning was due to convenience. I sleep to the left of my husband only because it is closer to the door and easier to tend to children in the night without waking him. Who drives comes down to who’s car we are taking. No one wants to fiddle with seat positions. Although, I would always prefer he drive because of the considerable nagging about speed and how fast corners are turned; too fast! Also if he is driving I’m free to again, tend to the children. I have been shifted away from the roadside on busy streets in his attempt to keep me safe though. The media is more mixed in the US, but not f/m equal, mind you. I have seen two men doing news shows. Also our sitcoms regularly have women ordering beers. Any woman would go broke ordering those froo froo drinks. 9$ for one drink when a beer is 3$; BEER PLEASE!

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      I’m so pleased to hear that there are places in the world who do have two men presenting the news together. I’ve never ever seen it (although I have often seen two women present the news), so it’s great to hear from you and for you to confirm that it is happening.
      Beer at $3? Wow! You got a bargain there. A beer in London, these days, is way over £5, but you’re right about it being less expensive than a glass of wine.
      Thanks so much for joining in this debate with your thoughts.

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  6. amommasview avatar

    I think you pretty much covered it. You could add paying bills in the restaurant or ordering wine with a meal… Usually it is the guy who is in charge (put in charge)…

    People are an interesting bunch…

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      You’ve touched on something where this happens that nobody else mentioned, Sandra. Ordering the wine! Very true. And you’re right about paying the bill (although I have seen a few women pay the bill when it’s the man’s birthday).

      1. amommasview avatar

        Hahaha… I think the paying the bill is turning into a 50/50 thing but the ordering the wine is one of those things. I often observe women knowing exactly what they want but it’s still the man who orders…

        1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

          I suppose it’s very much like going to the bar to order a drink? It always seems to be the man who will order. I once went to a restaurant where there were no prices on some of the menus. Can you guess who those menus were given to?

  7. Rowena avatar

    I’m not sure who sits where on our news shows but the younger woman and older man holds up with Sunrise a popular breakfast show here in Australia.
    My husband sits in the couch to the left at home in the corner while I have the couch closest to the corridoor but that’s from an access point of view and I do get up and down a lot more than him.
    One trend you haven’t mentioned is which side of the bed couples sleep on. We have an ensuite so I sleep nearest the bathroom while my husband sleeps near the door. I have mobility issues too which account for this but I have heard it’s a gender thing.
    My husband drives everywhere and mostly puts petrol in the car as well. I have no sense of direction and gender stereotype again, can’t read maps but refuse to use GPS in case it gets any worse.
    I barely drink and my husband drinks wine instead of beer.
    xx Rowena

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Which side of the bed we sleep of was mentioned in some on the comments, Rowena, but I didn’t really want to go there. To be honest, it never crossed my mind, but it seems there could be a trend there as well.

      I think you’ve given very good reasons why you sit on the right, sleep near the bathroom, etc, but I’m still wondering why those newsreaders sit in the same place on every show. A couple of other items has also been brought up such as it’s always the man who leads, while the woman will announce the time, etc. Something I need to watch out for and see if true here in the UK.

      Thank you very much for reblogging this post. It’s certainly resulted in some very interesting comments about what I highlighted.

      Best wishes,
      Hugh 😀

  8. Rowena avatar

    Reblogged this on beyondtheflow and commented:
    After reading Hugh’s Views on gender tereotypes, you might want to shake things up a bit! xx Rowena

  9. eloisedesousa avatar

    Good observation Hugh. I’ve noticed the presenters take the lead from the male too. He will announce the headlines while she alternatively gives the time and highlights after him.
    I like whiskey, on occasion, and never drink beer in public lol! The Hubble likes me to drive, so we share road trips and the experience which is something most of the female members in our family refuse to do. They don’t drive on the motorway for some odd reason.

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      I always thought driving on motorways was the easy bit, but maybe that’s a male thing? 😀
      Thanks for joining in the debate, Eloise. This post certainly got many of you talking about these invisible stereotypes.

  10. Eric Klingenberg avatar

    I like Gin and Tonic and hate beer.

    The seating position goes back a long time, it so the gentleman is free to draw his sword in an emergency; marauding Welshmen and the like.

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      A few people mentioned about the sword thing. Hard to believe that as we men no longer have any need for a sword, that the seating position on the TV is still governed by it. However, yesterday on Breakfast for the first time I’ve seen, the presenters had switched positions. I wonder if somebody at the BBC read this post? 🤔

      1. Eric Klingenberg avatar

        Proof the whole word hangs on your every word. Don’t dismiss the need for swords. After brexit we will need to keep the French at bay.

  11. Jean Reinhardt avatar

    I like my whiskey in an Irish Coffee, Hugh. :)

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Thanks, Jean. Another name I can pass on to my Sister-in-law. 😀

  12. Aquileana avatar

    Great points… You are so right as to how women and men are mostly placed that way on TV shows and news. Now, I’d Love to find an exception (at least one!)
    Funny and Clever post, Hugh. Thanks and have a Lovely day. Aquileana ✨

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      I hope we do eventually find out the answer, Auuileana. So far, I don’t believe we’ve had an answer that we can seriously say “yes, that’s why” but the BBC still have time to respond. I’m doubting they will, though.

  13. Kev avatar
    Kev

    My hearing aid is in my right ear, that’s why I stay to Pat’s left… But, I am suppose to have two. Lol. 😁

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      That’s a very good reason, Kev. 😀

  14. Sacha Black avatar

    The problem is, stereotyping is how kids learn, because they build heuristics in their brain based on ‘generalisations’ were programmed to bloody stereotype. It’s horrendous really, but when you think about it, it’s makes sense in evolutionary terms.

    ‘Generally lions ate you. Generally red berries were poisonous!’

    But that doesn’t make it right.

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      True, and I do agree with you in that much of it stems from how we are brought up. Still doesn’t explain why he always sits on the left and she always sits on the right, though. I’m still hoping the BBC will contact me with their reasons.

  15. Marje @ Kyrosmagica avatar

    I can’t say that I’ve ever thought about the news before but you do have a point. And with the driving! My hubby always drives if we have a long journey but I tend to drive him back locally when we’re out with friends. Bit of give and take!

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Good to hear, Marje. I’m guessing that many couples do the same. On the day I did the counting at the roadside I’m guessing it was the man’s turn to drive that day. 😀

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