This is no joke. Sorry if you thought I was going to double you up with laughter. No, today I’m talking stereotyping! I thought it was a thing of the past, but it seems it’s as evident today as it has always been.

Take, for example, television. Have you ever noticed that in a pub scene on a TV show, the men seem to be constantly drinking pints or bottles of beer, while the women drink glasses of wine or a gin-and-vodka tonic?

How often have you seen a man in a pub scene drinking a glass of wine and a woman drinking a beer? Some may say it’s down to taste, but surely not all the men in Coronation Street only drink beer while the women always order a glass of wine?

I’ll give it to Emmerdale (another UK soap opera), as I have seen at least one female character (the vicar!) drinking a pint of beer. It’s refreshing to see, but I’ve yet to see any men walk in and ask for a gin and tonic! It’s always “pint please, Chas.”

Let’s turn our attention to the news. I know many people don’t watch the news on TV because it’s always depressing, but take ‘Breakfast’, the BBC’s early morning news programme.

Why does the man always sit on the left of the screen, while his co-presenter, a woman, always sits on the right? Is it some kind of power struggle? Why can’t they occasionally swap positions?

Charlie State and Naga Munchetty
Charlie State and Naga Munchetty, Presenters of the BBC’s Breakfast – He always sits on the left while she always sits on the right. Picture of my TV screen taken by me.

This leads me to wonder why it always has to be a man and a woman when two people read the news on TV. ‘Breakfast’ occasionally has two women presenting the show, but I’ve never seen it with two men. Why? Is it not acceptable for two men to present the news together?

It’s precisely the same over on ITV. The man sits on the left of the screen while the woman always sits on the right.

Have you noticed that the male presenter seems much older (not you, Charlie) than the woman presenter? Very rarely is it the other way around? Is there a reason for that?

Let’s move on to driving. Yesterday, while waiting to cross the road, I counted the cars that drove past, where a man and woman were sitting in the front of the vehicle. Would you be surprised if I told you that it was the man who was driving in just about all of the cars?

I saw it while on holiday as well. The man usually drives a hired vehicle while the woman sits in the front passenger seat.

It happens in our family all the time. We go to pick up my sister-in-law and her husband, and I can guarantee that my sister-in-law will sit in the back seat while her husband will sit in the front passenger seat.

The same goes for my niece and her husband. When they come to visit us, he always drives, regardless of whose car they are using.

Take two couples going off on a car journey together. Why do the men always sit together in the front while the two women sit in the back of the car?

London 2012 Olympic Games
Celebrating at the London 2012 Olympic Games

Sport also suffers from stereotyping. Today, I was delighted to hear that Tom Daley and Dan Goodfellow won an Olympic bronze medal in the synchronised 10m platform diving.

On TV, ‘Breakfast’ mentioned it all morning, and the interview with Daley and Goodfellow was aired far too many times. They even interviewed a friend of Daley and Goodfellow’s, who talked the audience through the last dive more times than I care to remember.

However, where were Clare Balding and Co when Ed Ling won an Olympic bronze medal in the men’s trap shooting for Great Britain? Was he not worthy of an interview, Ms Balding? And why, unlike Daley and Goodfellow, did he only get a few seconds of a mention on ‘Breakfast’? Ed, if you’re reading this, then, unlike the BBC, I’d be delighted to interview you and celebrate the fact that you won an Olympic bronze medal.

Finally, let’s turn back to drink. How many of you ladies enjoy drinking whisky? Does anybody out there consider whisky to be only a man’s drink? Why am I asking these questions? It’s something that recently came up in conversation.

It seems I’m as guilty as most others at stereotyping. Reading through this post, why did I put an exclamation mark after the word vicar? Do vicars not drink alcohol?

Do you have any examples of stereotyping in today’s world? Does it bother you, or is it something we just take for granted?

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147 responses to “Why Do Men Sit On The Left And Women Sit On The Right?”

  1. Solveig avatar

    Well I can’t speak for tv as I don’t watch much of that. But I’ll keep my eyes open for French and German news broadcasts in the weeks to come.
    For driving, I don’t even have a license. I remember as a kid that the men would be in the front mostly due to their size, sometimes they would be relegated to the backseat if there was a women far older than them in the car, even if she was half their size. I always cede my right to the front seat to anyone who is older than I am, and the taller ones too…
    Oh and for the alcohol, my fiancé and I don’t drink at all…

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      A few people have mentioned ‘size’ when it comes to why a man usually sits in the front of a car when not driving, but it’s lovely to hear that many will usually give up the front seat when an older lady is also a passenger. Manners are so important in this day and age and I, for one, will always offer my seat on public transport to any woman if she has to stand. However, I’ve seen many men pretend she’s invisible.

  2. TanGental avatar

    Why did you begin to notice stereotyping when you moved to Wales?!! Why on Gogglebox do we only see pet dogs with the viewers and not cats? I think you are completely right though.

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Oh, it’s something that has been stirring in me for years, Geoff (but let’s not go there). 😀
      Never watched Gogglebox, so I can’t comment on that. Perhaps the cats are camera shy?

  3. Judy Martin avatar

    I agree with you wholeheartedly here Hugh! I watch BBC Breakfast and notice that mostly, the male sits on the left, I only watched it this morning for about an hour before work but I was sick of hearing about Tom Daley and Dan Goodfellow despite being thrilled that they won the bronze (I watched it last night so saw it live anyway)!
    When Mr Grump and i were in the Army, one of us was in catering, the other in artillery. I bet I can guess which way most people would think as to who did which job! :-)

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Yes, I think many would automatically think that you worked in catering and Mr Grump in Artillery, Judy. However, from the memory of reading your blog, I’m sure he’s the one that does a lot of the cooking in your household? When this subject came up in our house over the weekend, I mentioned that back in the 70s & 80s it was mainly only women you saw on the TV introducing a cookery programme. Now we have a good mixture. My observations of today’s world really struck a cord with me and I had to write it all down. I don’t think we’ll ever get to the bottom of the sofa position mystery.

  4. teachezwell avatar

    Here in the States, the only time I’ve seen women on the left of the screen on news broadcasts is when there are two women. Otherwise, the man sits on the left. The poor meteorologist is always to the right, male or female, or not even with the “news stars.” You’ve made some interesting observations!!

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Thank you. This thing seems to be worldwide! Is there something going on that we’re not aware of? I hope I’m safe and that what I have uncovered doesn’t mean I’m going to suddenly disappear…. 😀

      1. teachezwell avatar

        You never know, Hugh. Make sure you are right with God….. :-)

  5. Daisy in the Willows avatar
    Daisy in the Willows

    I have never even noticed – but I will pay closer attention now.

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Invisible stereotyping, Daisy. It had the same effect on me until I realised what was going on.

  6. Ruth avatar
    Ruth

    Oooh, I definitely like to drink whisky – single malt, like Porter girl – and although I’m not a fan of beer I’ll generally have a pint of cider (or two) in the pub. When visiting my family in Scotland I’ll usually drive rather my husband (although neither of us drive here in London). On the sofa at home I tend to sit on the right and my husband on the left, purely because I’m right-handed and he’s left-handed and it means we don’t bump elbows that way. In bed I sleep on the left because it’s nearer the door and I always get up to the loo in the night, so it’s easier for me when I’m stumbling about in the dark. Oh, and isn’t there some weird rule about why men’s shirts button one way and women’s another, because men dressed themselves and women were dressed by someone else, or something? Hmmm… now you’ve got me thinking… :-)

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Good to hear, Ruth. That’s three names I can now pass on to my sister-in-law. She’s very friendly…honest 😀

      I can understand the right-handed/left-handed arguments, but surely not all the male news presenters are left-handed and all the female news presenters right-handed? There has to be a very good reason why male newsreaders always sit on the left and female newsreaders always on the right. And why, do we never see two men present the news at the same time?

      The buttons question is also another good one. Hopefully, somebody will give us the answer.

  7. willowdot21 avatar

    Well that was a good rant full of valid questions. As to drinks in the pubs on TV , I do like Corrie ( Coronation Street ) and Emmerdale your right wmostly pints for the men a wine or shorts for the women, though I have seen Ken in Corrie drink wine, and Norris too , and Rodney in Emmerdale loves wine!
    News readers the guys are always older than the women because as the women get older the disappear! Feamale news readers have to be young and beautiful!
    I don’t know abouy sitting men on left women on right that foxes me!
    The Olympics yes I agree that strangely some are deemed glamorous and some not.
    What I want to know is why are so many weather women pregnant????

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Hello, Willow. I’m glad you enjoyed my rant today.

      I’ve never seen Ken drink wine in The Rovers, although I have seen him drink half pints of beer. On the other hand, Deirdre (God rest her soul) was one that always went for a glass of red wine. I’m sure there are male characters who do drink wine and female characters who drink beer, but we seldom seem to see it these days. And it’s not only the soaps who have us believe that that is the way it’s supposed to be. I could have named a few movies and TV dramas, but I think this post would have become far too long. There was a lot more I could have added.

      Wasn’t the BBC in trouble some years ago for moving Moria Stewart from reading the TV news for the reasons you give? It’s very sad given that it seldom happens to male newscasters. Maybe making them sit on the right-hand side of our screen was their punishment? And whatever happened to Anna Ford and Jan Lemming? Did they go the same way?

      I didn’t notice about the female weather presenters being pregnant. We seem to have a good mixture of both male and female weather presenters here in Wales. Maybe I just haven’t noticed if any of the female ones have been away?

      1. willowdot21 avatar

        Here in the South of England we have had an epidemic of pregnant weather ladies! Maybe it is catching!! Your right about the drink rules on TV and in movies we are being indoctrinated! As for women if we can’t stay young and beautiful we are banished , men on the other hand just become distinguished! Lol!? 🙃

  8. Richard Ankers avatar

    Why did it start raining whilst I was reading this post, a good two hours earlier than predicted on said same news program, saturating my laundry in the process. That’s what I want to know, Hugh?

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      lol, one for Carol Kirkwood to answer, Richard. She’s done it to me many a time. 😀

      1. Richard Ankers avatar

        I blame you for writing such distractingly interesting stuff. :)

        1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

          Thanks, Richard. That’s such a lovely compliment. Keeping hold of the reader is so important, come rain or shine.

  9. PorterGirl avatar

    I very much like drinking whiskey, although I prefer a single malt to a blend. Wine is generally my tipple of choice and I rarely drink pints as they are very big for my small self. I am partial to half a lager on a sunny afternoon, however. The news reading thing is a bit weird when you think about it, isn’t it? As for the driving – I know a couple where the lady ALWAYS does the driving, but generally it does seem to be a male-orientated activity. Personally, if I can get a bloke to drive me I will as I am pretty bad at parking :)

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Thanks for the thumbs up on Whisky, Lucy. I’ll pass that information on.

      I agree about drinking pints of beer/lager. They do rather make you want to visit the toilet a little too often. It’s one of the reasons I stay clear of pints, but I do enjoy a bottle of lager every now and again. I suppose the other advantage of letting a man do all the driving is that it means the passenger can then have a drink? I don’t mind driving and only drinking soft drinks if we’re going out for a meal with a group of people. However, the pub TV scenes and men with beer and woman with wine still bugs me.

      I hope we get to the bottom of the sofa positions. It’s a question that is begging to be answered.

      1. PorterGirl avatar

        I think you have the right idea about the driving thing! I should also point out that Lisa Dingle drinks pints in Emmerdale, but apart from her and the vicar there is quite the sexist beverage distribution in that place! The sofa thing is a mystery. I feel obliged to mount some sort of epic quest to discover the truth, but I’m a bit busy at the moment.

        1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

          Thank you for reminding me that Lisa Dingle does drink pints of beer. My partner also informs me that Rhonda Goskirk also drinks points. Just goes to show that what I said about Emmerdale was right. 😀

          No worries about the sofa question. Maybe it’s something Head Porter can investigate in the future?

          1. PorterGirl avatar

            Actually, that lawyer chap who is about to lose all his money sometimes drinks small glasses of wine, I think. Perhaps Emmerdale is a bit more forward thinking than most ;)
            Good plan, that – dear old Head Porter hasn’t got anything sensible to do, I shall put him on it!

  10. http://www.salpa58.wordpress.com avatar

    This was posted in Prime Magazine;

    Why do we escort women on our left arm?

    When a man escorts his partner, tradition has it that he offers his left arm. This tradition originates from medieval times when men escorted women around town and through the fields. Should a threat arise or the woman’s honor require defending, the man’s sword hand (his right hand) would be free, giving him quick and easy access to his sword, worn on his left side.

    In todays world women do sit or walk on the left more often. :o)

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      That’s a very interesting theory. But what if the man was left-handed? Would he have then escorted her on his right arm? Would that have been frowned upon in those days?

      It got me thinking of which arm I offer when I escort somebody. For me, I’d automatically offer my right arm, because I am right handed. However, I don’t have any need of a sword, but if my phone rings then I will still answer it with my right arm and let my escort loose.

  11. FlorenceT avatar

    I have a theory… the man is sitting to the right of the woman in the news… ‘right hand man’ has more power.. and in a world privileging right-handedness, being on the right allows him the freedom to gesture and make large arm movements (perceived as authoritative body language) while she is hampered. And yes, it is ‘tradition’ and we may need to question it, don’t we? ☺

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      I agree, we do, Florence.

      An interesting answer. I’ll have to check and see if Charlie is righthanded.

      Thanks for joining in the debate.

  12. Stevie Turner avatar

    I love an occasional glass of whisky and ginger, but hate the taste of beer. When either myself or my husband makes a cup of tea for both of us, my cup is always on the right and his is always on the left. Men, as far as I can tell, don’t mind driving hire cars, but as far as I’m concerned, I’d rather sit in the passenger seat and be driven in a strange country or place where I haven’t been to before. Men sit on the left maybe because they’re ‘sinister’ and women are ‘dextrous’!

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Good to hear about the whisky, Stevie. I’ll pass that on to my niece and her mother.

      I’d never thought about tea making, but you are so right! We do exactly the same. And do you see how your cups line up with the same positions of those news presenters on the sofa?

      I can understand your concerns about driving in unfamiliar surroundings, but surely all those lady passengers I saw yesterday were not local people?

      Thank you for joining the debate.

      1. Stevie Turner avatar

        Men like to command and take control. I’d rather read or doze, so I’m as happy to be driven as Sam is to drive. He’s a terrible back seat driver anyway.

        1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

          As is my partner. However, I’m not sure what Theresa May would say? 😀 But, that’s another subject for another day.

          1. Stevie Turner avatar

            Some women are career-driven as Theresa May obviously is. Good luck to them!

  13. Ritu avatar

    I think it is a conditioning thing. We have all been taught to believe these things so even if we don’t believe them, they are there in our subconscious!

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      Something to ponder about, Ritu, but who taught us this is how it should be? For me, it’s something I grew up with, but I honestly thought that things had changed. It seems it hasn’t. I’d love to know why the news presenters never seem to swap positions.

      1. Ritu avatar

        I think it is definitely what we grow up with Hugh, you’re right there!

  14. Judith Barrow avatar

    Well, I’ve not taken much notice before, Hugh. That’s another thing I have to obsess about now! Er… I also sleep on the left…., well. it depends, if I stand at the end of the bed I’m on the right… but I’m left of hubby. Now see what you’ve done!! jx

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      So if we were looking at your bed, you’d be on the right, Judith? Just like the female presenters on the news sofas then😀 I wonder if they sleep on the right?

  15. Victo Dolore avatar

    I had not really thought about the position on the news but yes….. !

    1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

      So it happens in your part of the world as well? There must be some world rule about it, that I know nothing about.

      1. Victo Dolore avatar

        I don’t know if it is true all over the country but it certainly is the case in my neck of the woods.

        1. Hugh's Views and News avatar

          Let’s hope we get some confirmation.

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